What exactly do you say to your friend on his special day?! The love doctor John Dumelo is here to help!
Majid Michel renewed his 10 year old wedding vows with his lovely wife over the weekend, and unfortunately John Dumelo who is currently out of the country was a no show.
John didn’t leave his friend in limbo, he took to social media to offer his good friend some words of advice as he continues to enjoy a successful and healthy marriage.
We can all learn from these awesome pieces of advice!
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1. You should remember that marriage is less about marrying the right person and more about becoming the right person.
2. When you’re having an argument, listen to understand, don’t listen to find loopholes so you can win. Marriage is either a win/win or a lose/lose.
3. You can’t win by “beating” someone else down.
4. Don’t forget to laugh.
5. Most couples spend the majority of their time talking logistics: who’s doing the house shopping, who’s calling the gardener, who’s picking up the kids. A relationship can’t survive on logistics.
6. Don’t go to sleep when an argument hasn’t been resolved.
7. Sometimes just an “I’m sorry” would solve everything.