11 Ways To Be The Best Boyfriend She Will Ever Have

As a man, you always have to be at the top of your game while in a relationship.

Great boyfriends are an endangered species today and if you package yourself as one, you will never have a bad relationship in your life.

So how do you become the best boyfriend she will ever have? Here is how:

1. Show her off.

Girls love it when their boyfriends show them off. It gives them assurance that they are your “one and only.” Get territorial and let the world know what she’s your girl. Introduce her as your girlfriend every time you bump into one of your friends or associates. Don’t just keep quiet or introduce her by name.

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2. Listen to her (always).

Treat your girlfriend like she’s a Maths teacher and you are a Form Four student. Just listen to her as if she’s saying the most precious thing on earth. I know you’ve heard this a hundred times before—even by her, during a fight before—but it’s really so important in your quest to make her happy and be a better boyfriend. Girls relieve stress by talking and venting. You are there to support her and all she asks is that you actually listen even if you don’t agree with what she’s saying.

3. Cuddle with her.

Many men underestimate how responsive girls are to touch. Every time you touch a girl, sweet feelings run through her nerves. These, in turn, get converted into adoration for you. Whether you’re on the couch watching TV or on the bed or in the car or wherever you are, always cuddle with her. Never be afraid to put your arm over her shoulder or around her waist.

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4. Appreciate the little things she does.

When she cooks, say how sweet the meal is even if it tastes like 19th-century malaria medicine. There are millions of people nowadays who can’t cook anyway. At least she tried. A lot of guys just don’t show when they appreciate something unless it’s something super profound. Don’t be like them. Commend your girl even when she wipes the floor or washes dishes.

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5. Tease her a lot…and I mean a lot.

Teasing girls makes them warm up to you even more. Make fun about the way she yawns or uses a fork. Little things like those. Do not assume she won’t like it. Deep down inside, she enjoys the little jokes you make. She also loves the playful banter you two have. Even when you part, her favorite memories will always be around the many times you made her laugh and smile and made her happy.

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6. Do things with her that only she likes to do.

If she can sit through a couple of hours of your yelling at the TV during an English Premier League game, you can spend an hour watching that Telenovela with her. Of course you won’t actually be watching. You will just be pretending to do so. She will not notice. Don’t make her do stuff you like then refuse to do what she actually likes.

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7. Tell her the difficulties and dilemmas you are having in life and ask for her advice.

There is no better way to make a woman feel appreciated than to make her see how much you value her opinion. If your family is stressing you, tell her about it. If you are having problems at work or in school, tell her about it. It means that you trust her with anything and everything like she trusts you. Don’t be closed off. If you think that you’re going to burden her with your problems, you’re wrong.

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8. Do chores for her when she’s had a rough and tiresome day.

If she’s saying how tiresome and stressful her day is, surprise her by saying you are coming to cook for her. Or invite her over to your place then help her shower before preparing a nice meal for her; that’s if you don’t live together. If you stay together then it’s even easier.

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9. Be good friends with her BFFs.

You might not like them but always be nice to them and win them over. Even if you’re not their biggest fans, being friends with her BFFs shows your girl that you want to be a bigger part of her life. She’ll be ecstatic that you’re willing to go hang with her and the girls from time to time.

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10. Always have a plan.

I realized that nothing bores a woman off than a man without a plan. Unless she told you she loves staying indoors and watching movies all day, don’t assume that she does. Make sure you always come up with something interesting to do. No woman wants a boring man. Tell her where you’re going, what you’ll be doing and what is in store for the rest of the weekend. Don’t ask her what you should do. Girls hate making difficult decisions, and she’ll love not having to put forth the effort for making plans.

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11. Be a beast in bed.

Not many men are actually good in bed so if you establish yourself in this arena, you are going to have a string of ex-girlfriends who miss you more than a kid in boarding school misses home. Girls have a harder time fulfilling their needs in the bedroom and a little more effort from you does great things for your relationship.