In every relationship, the one thing that makes it successful is the sharing of gifts on anniversaries, dates, events and occasions. Women especially are more concerned about these things and never forget and will go wild if you forget some particular date such as their birthday, wedding anniversary, the first date you met, and the date you had your first child. This include other important dates such as Christmas, Easter, Iddr Fitr, etc. should you skip any of these dates, you are doomed.
But why all this passion for this dates? This is because they are characterized by gifts and women know that all these occasions will come with a gift they might not have gotten all the year round.
One issue that really affects men is when it comes to choosing the right gift for these occasions. The choosing of gifts is a big headache for men because they can hardly select the right gift that will please a woman. Some buy Jewelries, others opt for cake and pastries, some for chocolates and some even send their girlfriends or spouse on vacations abroad but the number one thing or most common thing most men quickly opt for is panties and brassiers, so we wish to ask, is it advisable to buy your girlfriend or woman panties as a gift?
To digress on this one, it’s not really a bad idea buying the woman you love panties (afterall, s3 wo na wo wuro) but the problem here is, are you buying the right one. Men think wild and usually when buying panties as gifts, will rather visualize what they will like to see her in and not what she will prefer and this has caused a lot of confusion in many relationships.
In choosing panties for women, men will buy G-String (popularly known as sexy pant or “trumus” in our environment) without checking to see if the woman he is buying for is comfortable with it or not. Some also buy too trashy pants, how do you expect a woman to appreciate a gift of a pant that when she wears, all her privates are exposed. She immediately thinks you have a bad intention and it doesn’t matter even if she’s your wife, she sees it to be insulting. She also thinks you view her as a prostitute. Now one gift see all the “wahala”.
Now another point on the side of most Ghanaian guys is how to even buy the panties. Most men in Ghana find it embarrassing walking to an underwear shop to buy panties because they feel they will be teased by their friends, but in the bedroom, they can even pull it down with their teeth.
Fact is women will love it if you select the right panties and it’s not really a bad idea to buy panties for your woman or girlfriend but you need to do it tactfully and with experience. First of all you need to know her size, so that you don’t end up buying her any parachute and to do this, you can intentionally tease her waistline and in it she will be forced to disclose her waist size, if you continue mentioning the wrong size, make sure you save that somewhere.
If you have a sister, it will be easy from there, you can tell her to help you choose the right panties for her, not what you think is appropriate, but it depends on the woman though, some are naturally trashy.
You do all this if you are the shy type but on the other hand, you can study all the panties she wears when you’re about to go down. One of the best ones most women love are the matching ones and the designer branded ones such as victoria’s secret and co. So make sure it’s classy and beautiful not with too much feathers all over them and it should match with her bra, they love that. Once you have all this at the tip of your fingers, you can walk to the shop to buy for her, that is if you are not bothered and not the shy type.
So the question still remains, is it advisable to buy your girlfriend panties? Yes! it is but you should always make sure you buy the right panties and you should be confident about it. Also note that, the occasion matters because women will hate it if you buy panties on their birthday or Christmas. But on occasions such as Valentine’s day and your wedding anniversary, no problem, it’s a very good idea.
So go out there and get her some panties if you could.