As men, we always act surprised and confused whenever our girlfriends sulk and refuse to talk to us. But it’s the little annoying things we do that trigger the inflated cheeks and extended silence.
The reality is that if you want to get along well with your girlfriend, you have to learn what the red hot buttons that turn her off are, as well as the green buttons that get her excited.
Here are some things that are guaranteed to hurt her feelings
1. Lying
Girls hate being lied to. They end up feeling that there are even bigger things you aren’t being truthful about. A couple of lies lead to diminishing trust on her side, and once she no longer trusts you, the relationship is doomed. You can lie to anyone else but always be truthful to your girlfriend.
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2. Saying you’re on your way but then show up hours later
Unless you’re superman, the Flash, a pilot or Ezekiel Kemboi, never tell your girlfriend that you are just minutes away yet you haven’t even left the location you currently are. She will question your level of commitment and think you aren’t taking her seriously.
3. Forget an anniversary or birthday
Things like birthdays and anniversaries might bore the crap out of us men but women value them more than anything else, Just note down those important dates somewhere to be safe
4. Not answering her questions
her queries might sound silly and ridiculous, but she is asking them because she wants an answer. Making her feel like she’s talking to a tree will definitely cost you a lot of fun time in future
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5. Criticizing her in front of people
If your girlfriend has done something stupid in public, keep it to yourself. At least until when you are alone with her. Women care about how they are seen by others. Don’t you dare bring down her value in front of others.
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6. Ignoring her achievements
A good man should always be proud of his girl, not jealous. Her success doesn’t belittle yours. Celebrate every step she makes in life with her, no matter how small. She will be every appreciative of how much you care. She will always know that you want nothing but the best for her. And that’s the kind of man a woman will hold onto for life.
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7. Saying how beautiful another girl is yet you never tell her the same
Compliment your girl first before anyone else. if she’s sensitive and you think another girl is more beautiful than her, just keep it to yourself sir.
8. Not telling her what’s bothering you but going out to tell other people.
If you have a problem with her, keep it between you two. The minute you start to talk to someone outside of the relationship you are betraying the trust that you have. That will likely get you the serious face, especially if she finds out that your friends know private things about her that they shouldn’t.
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9. Taking forever to reply to her texts
She’s your girlfriend. the number one woman in your life and her texts should be answered as soon as possible. No excuses. If you take longer than usual, at least call her to explain what’s going on. Taking forever to communicate will only create room for negative imaginations in her mind. And these will be used against you.
10. Flirting on social media sites
I know that there are hot women posting pictures all over Instagram and Facebook and you might be tempted to leave a flirty comment, but always refrain from doing so, Your girl always goes through your social media. She might tell you she doesn’t but the truth is she does. keep your online conversations clean.
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